Do you ask yourself these questions?
Am I good enough?
Do I have enough experience or resources?
What if they lose respect for me if I show my emotions?
Why isn’t my team on the same page as me?
If you’ve ever wrestled with self-doubt, impostor syndrome, or the myth of perfection, you’re not alone—and this episode of 10 IN10TIONAL Minutes with Janine is for you.
In this episode, Christo Pretorius and I get real about the lies leaders tell themselves—and how to overcome them to step into your full potential as a leader.
Here’s what we talk about:
Self-Doubt and Impostor Syndrome
The belief of "I’m not good enough" is one of the biggest lies we tell ourselves. I share how tools like self-awareness, journaling, and feedback loops can help you reframe these thoughts and build confidence.
Favorite quote: Helen Keller: "Never bend your head. Hold it high. Look the world straight in the eye."
Creating a Culture of Truth
Many leaders worry about being too honest, fearing it will stress their teams. We discuss how honesty and vulnerability actually strengthen trust and foster open communication.
Favorite quote: Charlie Kirk: "If you believe in something, you need to have the courage to fight for those ideas—not run away from them or try and silence them."
Misalignment as a Leadership Lie
Ever wondered, "Why isn’t my team on the same page?" Christo and I break down how to identify misalignment and offer actionable steps to get everyone back on track.
The Perfection Trap
"It has to be perfect before we launch." This lie keeps many leaders stuck. We share how focusing on progress over perfection inspires teams and encourages action.
Favorite quote: Lewis Howes: "The more we can be aware of our thoughts, feelings, and actions, the more we can make choices that align with our true selves."
The Biggest Lies Leaders Tell Themselves
"I must have all the answers."
"If I show my emotions, they won’t respect me."
These beliefs create isolation and prevent collaboration. Learn how to embrace imperfections, seek feedback, and lead authentically.Favorite quote: Alex Hormozi: "The only way to get rid of the fear of doing something is to go out and do it."
👉 If any of this resonates with you, listen to the full episode now on Apple Podcasts or your favorite platform.
This episode will challenge the lies you might be telling yourself and empower you with tools to lead with intention, courage, and authenticity.
If this speaks to you, share it with someone who needs to hear it too. Let’s build a culture of truthful, resilient leaders together.
With love and purpose,
Dr. Janine Do Cabo
Host, 10 IN10TIONAL Minutes with Janine
P.S. What’s one "lie" you’ve told yourself as a leader? I’d love to hear your thoughts—reply and let me know!
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